This comes with a big “but” because giving yourself completely for the first time to me you have to let go of your fears and this comes not naturally. There has to be a bound of trust. You must learn to trust me and I must learn to recognize your boundaries and how you make that known.
When we have found this and trust is there, this will be the ultimate moment of surrendering yourself with impotence to me. And believe it or not it will feel as a great victory for the both of us.
It will not only feel like a victory to you but you will also feel be liberated. Liberty may sound silly because I can do with you whatever I want at that moment. Probably I have bound you or made you immobile in an other way but that's just what feels liberated.